Something that every town needs is a place to get a morning coffee. Somewhere the local folks drop in to grab the local news along with a fresh cup and a light breakfast before heading off to work. I’ve lived and worked in places like that, and the little diner, coffee shop, or the mom-and-pop restaurant can literally be the center of the town. I now live in a small city amply provided with restaurants, coffee shops, and the like. But I work in a nearby small town lacking one.
It’s a small town that I once lived in and had many family and friend connections in. When we lived there, the Village was adorned with a small coffee shop that served as a sort of social center.
In the mornings, it was visited by the residents, members of the Board of Selectmen ( for those of you from “away” from New England, it would be like the city council), and anyone out to socialize and find out what was going on.
After my layoff from the Gov I walked my crew of four children there on days when there was no school. It was pleasant to be in a place where everyone knew our names, and we were greeted with a big smile. Regrettably, that place is gone now, and when I walk past It’s a bit of a walk down memory lane.
I was in the Town Offices the other day and a few of us got to talking about the lack of a local coffeeshop or small restaurant. Most of the talk around here about development center on getting companies to start businesses that bring revenue in, jobs, and which attract other business. All very important. But towns need places where people gather to socialize – a local club, the cultural center that hosts community concerts, the school, or even the local market where you exchange news over the selection of eggs.
This conversation rolled on for a while, and then paused. Then the town Assistant Administrator queried, “What locations in the Village would be good for this?” The conversation swelled again as we discussed various locations, their owners, available parking, and convenience. Eventually we all discovered that we all had actual work to do, but we now had something else to think on.
Despite growing up in New York City, I’ve lived and worked in enough small towns in New England to know that sometimes discussions like the one I was taking part in are the beginnings of new things. Things cook, people cogitate, questions are asked, and eventually things coalesce around a plan.
I still remember how glad and jolly the four kids were when we started the walk down to the coffee shop. Good behavior was required, but in exchange they were treated as honored guests. The tables were full of locals talking about recent events; what was going on at local mill that was being redeveloped, the concert happening at the old church on Saturdayโall the buzz of a healthy community. Yes, there were scandalous rumors. That was just a bit of sauce for the goose!
I drive by three or four of the sites we discussed as potential locations for a coffee shop, and I could almost imagine taking a table by the window for an hour with a cup of coffee and a pastry, watching the traffic roll on.
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We have a couple small coffee shops in my town but lately there is a drive-through coffee chain popping up. And the neighbors are complaining about the music that is piped out. Why do you need music to order a drive-through coffee? I don’t know, but the city council–and the police–are working on it. So much for coffee and camaraderie with a pastry on the side.
I agree with your final comment. I’ve also noted that people complain about the loss of community spaces, but continue to just go to the drive-thrus. Somehow, there is no link in their minds between the disappearance of one and the popularity of the other.
Yes those were neat little places back in the day when folks had time to sit and visit. Even seniors are pn the ho a lot more these days.
My folks had a small cafe in a small town, ” MOM’S PLACE.” It was a dedication, though, a not-for-profit, if you will. ๐
These days it’s harder to get reliable help, and folks will sit an hour to chat, buying only one coffee. Not the greatest for cash flow. Still I hope the people in your town do get some sort of social center off the ground.
All your points are really valid, and after all, a business has to make money to stay in business.
Whoops! Seniors are on the go. Sorry about the typo!
I do a spelling check, and still they slip through!
A diner is one of my favourite places in the world. On one of my cross-country moves, I made sure to eat a diner in whatever place I was every single morning. It was amazing, and showed me that they are the same, with the same people everywhere. It was somehow reassuring.
๐ฅฐ Diners! Ahhhh! NOW I know one of the things I’d buy if I ever had a winning lottery ticket. (I’d have more of a chance of winning if I started buying lottery tickets!)
You too? Haven’t bought one in twenty years!
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This is wonderful. And it’s true; in a small town a conversation can lead somewhere real.